HELP FOR PARENTS
Kim provides support and education from a traditional biblical perspective to parents who have minor or adult children who identify in some way as lgbtq or as an ally of the lgbtq community. She leads small groups for parents and primary caregivers, as well as providing individual support for parents.
she also works with adolescents and teens who have questions or concerns related to identity, sexuality, or gender.
group for christian parents with an lgbtq-identified child
12-Week ZOOM GROUP
NEXT GROUP: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. CST, Sept. 22nd - Dec. 15th. If this does not work for you, please reach out as additional groups will be formed.
It’s understandable that when your child identifies as LGBTQ, much of your attention becomes focused on them—what they believe, the choices they make, and what their future may hold. In the midst of concern for your child, it can be easy to lose sight of your own mental and emotional well-being and what God may want to do in you.
Oxygen Masks On: Parents First shifts some of that attention back to you. Over 12 weeks, you’ll have space to process difficult emotions and learn from other parents walking a similar road. You’ll be encouraged to recover parts of your own life that may have been pushed aside, clarify what is—and isn’t—your responsibility when it comes to your child, learn to recognize and regulate your emotional reactions, and examine patterns of thinking and responding that may be affecting you and your relationship with your child.
Payment: $240 per person / $400 household rate (two family members). Monthly payment plans are available for a small additional fee. Scholarships may be available. Please don’t let finances keep you from reaching out.
Your group will be led by Kim Jones. Drawing from her personal struggles with same-sex attraction, trauma-informed training, and more than 2,000 hours of facilitating small groups, Kim helps parents navigate difficult family conversations with compassion, wisdom, and a commitment to biblical truth.
You cannot control every choice your child makes. But you can learn to respond with greater calm, wisdom, and intentionality—remaining connected to your faith, your values, and the kind of parent you want to be, regardless of where your child is on their journey.
Frequently asked questions:
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NEXT GROUP: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. CST, Sept. 22nd - Dec. 15th. If this does not work for you, please reach out as additional groups will be formed. Groups meet weekly for 12 weeks. Each meetings is 2 hours.
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This group is for parents and primary caregivers of an LGBTQ-identified child (minor or adult), as well as parents whose child identifies as an LGBTQ ally. This group is based on an historical biblical worldview as relates to sexuality and gender,
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Yes. Kim is committed to protecting your privacy and maintaining the confidentiality of everything you share. In addition, every participant agrees to respect one another's confidentiality so that everyone feels safe sharing honestly and openly.
While no group facilitator can guarantee what happens outside of the group, confidentiality is taken very seriously. If a participant violates another person's confidentiality, they may be asked to leave the group.
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Each participant meets with the facilitator for a brief 30-minute consultation. This conversation gives you an opportunity to ask questions, discuss your family's situation, and determine whether the group is a good fit for your needs. Kim may also recommend a book or other resource that would be especially helpful for your situation.
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Both. Each session includes teaching, practical tools, guided discussion, and opportunities to learn from the experiences of other parents. Many parents say that hearing "I'm not the only one" is one of the most healing parts of the experience. There is also a private WhatsApp group to share prayer requests and to receive and give encouragement to your fellow participants.
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No. While Kim upholds the traditional Christian worldview and biblical teaching regarding sexuality and gender, you're not expected to have everything figured out before you come. If you have concerns or questions about the course or its approach, Kim is happy to discuss those with you.
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Yes, but not with one-size-fits-all answers. This course equips you with practical tools that help you remain regulated, think clearly, and respond in ways that align with your faith and your values. You'll also explore how these principles apply specifically to conversations about LGBTQ issues. You'll learn from other parents' experiences as well as Kim's insights and guidance. The bottom line is this: you can know all the right things, but if you can't stay regulated when your child becomes angry or walks away, it's much harder to have the kind of conversations you hope for.
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There is no pressure to share more than you want. At the same time, one of the greatest benefits of the group is having a safe place to share your heart with parents who understand. As you do, you'll likely discover you're not nearly as alone as you thought—and that can bring renewed hope and strength for the journey ahead.
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Yes. Homework is worksheet oriented, so there is very little reading. The more you engage with the worksheets, the more equipped and confident you will be when the course ends. However, life happens, so, you are not required to complete homework in order to participate in the group.
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For your own benefit, as well as for the cohesion of the group, we encourage participants to attend as consistently as possible. Emotional safety is an important part of creating an environment where people feel comfortable sharing honestly and vulnerably. When participants frequently come and go, that sense of safety can be diminished.
Of course, life happens. Missing one or two sessions during a 12-week course is understandable. However, if you already know you'll need to miss more than two sessions, please let Kim know before the group begins so you can discuss whether this group is the best fit at this time.
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The principles taught apply whether your child is a teenager or an adult, although discussions often include how boundaries and communication differ at different ages.
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Parents whose child identifies as an LGBTQ ally are welcome. Many of the same family dynamics, fears, and conversations arise regardless of whether the child personally identifies as LGBTQ.
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No. This is a psychoeducational support group, not counseling or psychotherapy. The course provides education, practical tools, guided discussions, and peer support, but it is not a substitute for mental health treatment.
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Tuition is $240 per person or $400 per household for two family members. Monthly payment plans are available (small processing fee applies). Scholarships may be available.
After your 30-minute consultation with Kim, if you decide to participate, she will email you an invoice through her secure accounting software. Simply click the payment link in the invoice to pay online using a credit or debit card.
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If you'd like to learn more about the group or discuss whether it's the right fit for your family, schedule a free 30-minute consultation with Kim. You'll have an opportunity to ask questions, share your family's situation, and determine whether this group is right for you.
The next group starts September 15. Additional groups are being formed, so connect with Kim even if this timeframe doesn’t work for you. See Individual Sessions below if that is a better option for you.
Contact Kim to schedule a free 30-minute consultation.
INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS:
FOR PARENTS & ADOLESCENTS
If a group isn't the right fit for your current situation, or if you'd like additional support, Kim also offers individual sessions for parents via Zoom or in person for those in the Kansas City metro area.
Kim also works individually with adolescents and teens who have questions or concerns related to identity, sexuality, or gender. These sessions are offered in person only.
Contact Kim to schedule a free 30-minute consultation.
